“Each life has its share of heroism, an obscure heroism, born of abdication, of renunciation and acceptance under the merciless whip of fate.”
This
blog item contains articles which offer mostly western perspectives, since there are regular news/journal content on gender issues from Europe and North America. Much more can be added from the African continent and other areas undergoing rapid development.
I recently read and can recommend the article dubbed
"The personal is political"
[
http://www.carolhanisch.org/CHwritings/PIP.html
] which was published while I was still incubating in the womb. The
historical perspectives are interesting and probably as relevant as
ever. That article got me thinking that without acknowledging real
experience in anecdotes, we may end up with abstracted policies which
become reduced to platitudes. In the current era a few women get
celebrated and/or fast-tracked career-wise while most women have to
juggle new and old complexities. Meanwhile there is the risk that
gender education for the next generation is left to pop culture which
is full of contradictions.
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flashback - gender in politics: http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/australasia/what-sank-julia-gillard-the-truth-about-sexism-in-australia-8679285.html
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http://global.nytimes.com/2013/06/01/world/europe/charting-the-impact-of-everyday-sexism-across-the-world.html
Special Report: The Female Factor
Charting the Impact of Everyday
Sexism Across the World
By BETH GARDINER
LONDON — When Laura Bates started a Twitter account asking women
to share stories of sexist treatment, she expected a handful of
replies, and hoped they would yield an article for Web or print
consumption. Just over a year later, the effort she now calls the
Everyday Sexism Project has grown to more than 30,000 posts from
around the world, with nearly 50,000 Twitter followers.
The project’s
Web site
and
Twitter feed
have ballooned into a compendium of firsthand testimonials that range
from angry descriptions of patronizing remarks to heart-wrenching
accounts of rape and other assault. Women post about crude come-ons
in the workplace, lewd comments on the street, groping on crowded
public transportation and much more. Most, but not all, of the
comments come from developed countries.
Yesterday guy on packed Tube took opportunity to rub his crotch
against me and stroke my bum when I couldn’t move,” wrote
Naomi
Phillips, using the Twitter handle @nayphillips and referring to
the London subway. “Worst thing about it was that I didn’t say
anything out loud. Concerned about making a scene & what if I
was wrong? I wasn’t.”
Working with supporters in other countries, Ms. Bates, who lives
in north London, has created companion sites in 15 nations, including
Brazil, France, Germany and the United States. Her original impulse
to tackle the issue came after a week in which a man grabbed her leg
on a bus, a group shouted at her from a car and two men commented on
her breasts as she walked by.
When the online posts started streaming in, she said, she began to
see how common such incidents were, and how many women were eager to
discuss experiences they had kept to themselves. The rush of stories
“feels like something that was waiting to happen,” said Ms.
Bates, 26, an actress and writer. “We’re not sure that we’re
allowed to talk about it, and as soon as we start talking to someone
else about it, they go, ‘Oh, my God, me too!”’ Women, she says,
have been taught not to make a fuss about crude treatment and have
learned to just put up with it.
“But when there’s 25,000 other people saying, ‘Actually, I
agree with that too,’ it’s no longer possible to shame you into
silence,” she said. “Social media allows us to stand behind each
other, and it’s so powerful.”
In May, Ms. Bates helped lead the introduction of a campaign
urging Facebook to remove graphic images of violence against women,
some of them with joking captions. Supporters bombarded advertisers
with Twitter messages, demanding that they refuse to allow their ads
to appear alongside such content. Facebook said that it does not
allow content that is hateful, threatening or incites violence and
that it responds as quickly as possible to reports of language or
images that violate the site’s terms.
As galvanizing as the Internet may be, Ms. Bates is keenly aware
of the need to grow offline, too.
The lawmaker Yvette Cooper, the opposition Labour Party’s top
official on
Britain’s
domestic affairs, said she was using comments Ms. Bates compiled to
push in Parliament for a sex and relationships curriculum in schools
that includes teaching zero tolerance for violence.
The stories posted on Everyday Sexism include many that “we
wouldn’t as politicians normally see, because it’s not the kind
of thing that people will necessarily write to us about,” Ms.
Cooper noted. “There was one from somebody who said, ‘Our lesson
on violence was a police officer came to talk to the girls about what
to wear and how to stay safe, and the boys went out and played
football,”’ she said. Ms. Bates said she had been speaking more
frequently at schools and colleges around Britain, and she is
advising on a project the police are starting to tackle unwanted
sexual behavior on London subways and buses.
Most shocking, Ms. Bates said, is the number of posts she receives
about or from young girls. One woman wrote last month that her
8-year-old daughter had asked her the meaning of a lewd term for
female genitals, then said a boy in her class had told her he planned
to pound hers when she was older. “Is this the culture that is
infecting our schools now?” wrote the mother, who gave her name as
Jules. Other stories are more hopeful. One woman, who gave her name
as Vicki, wrote that when a man she was giving directions to grabbed
her breast, “the usual anger-but-not-quite-sure-what-to-do-about-it
was replaced with something else. I’d read enough versions of same
story just a few days previously.”
She noted his license plate number and called the police, who
charged him criminally, she wrote. A woman named Danielle Morgan got
an apology, although not from her own harasser, after she wrote on
Twitter about a group of men who shouted “sluts” at her from a
passing car. “I did this when I was a young stupid” man, wrote a
poster using the Twitter handle @Hurp_durpa. “I’m ashamed every
time I think about it. I am so sorry.”
Men contribute about 10 percent of posts, Ms. Bates said. One,
Richard Twyman, who manages a Manchester betting shop, said Everyday
Sexism had helped him understand the impact of things he used to do
unthinkingly, like questioning what a rape victim was wearing or
rating the appearance of women on the street. “As a young guy, if I
was out with some girls and a girl that was too drunk to know what
she was doing leaned on me, I’d grab a feel,” he said by phone.
Now he confronts others he sees engaging in such behavior, he said.
However, in addition to encouraging feedback, Ms. Bates gets
hundreds of violent threats, some vowing to rape or kill her. When
the boyfriend she lives with was traveling, she stayed with friends
rather than alone at home. She runs the site herself with some help
from volunteers. A trickle of money comes from publishing articles on
harassment, but the project operates at a loss. Ms. Bates said she
has put £2,000 to £3,000, or $3,000 to $4,500, into the site, not
counting income lost in the unpaid hours she spends on it. She earns
a small amount from publishing articles on the subject of sexism and
is seeking grants from several organizations.
It is featured in a documentary made for the Gucci-backed
Chime
for Change concert for women and girls on Saturday in London, and
Ms. Bates said she hopes some support may come from that. The police
plan to use the Everyday Sexism site to enhance their intelligence on
where and when harassment happens, said Inspector Ricky Twyford of
the British Transport Police, the project manager for the move to
curb sexual harassment on London’s buses and trains. They also want
Ms. Bates to repeat what Inspector Twyford called a powerful talk she
delivered to police officials, in which she read posts from women
describing being harassed or assaulted. The police plan to record it
to use in workshops for officers who patrol the transit network, he
said.
Stella Creasy, a Labour Party lawmaker who exchanges Twitter
postings with Everyday Sexism, said these stories demonstrated that
women remained unequal. “This is real life, this is happening every
single day to women in our country,” Ms. Creasy said. “There is a
resurgence of feminist activism, and I say bring it on. That is
amazing, that is going to make Britain a better place for everyone.”
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Next is a recent provocative article by
Yasmin
Alibhai Brown. A rebuttal from young feminist is posted below
it. Visit the original link to view reader comments.
http://www.independent.co.uk/voices/comment/todays-young-women-have-betrayed-feminism-8660798.html
Today’s young
women have betrayed feminism
I
squarely blame the young with their foolish apathy and criminal
self-indulgence
by
Yasmin Alibhai Brown
Kate appeared at the Queen’s birthday parade, big with baby,
smiling, blooming. She, who wore an ice- cream pink outfit, is a
perfect icon of today’s womanhood – rich and canny, compliant in
public, not fearsomely feminist but sweetly feminine, a princess who,
unlike rebellious Diana, may just live happily ever after because she
fits in and fits our times. Hundreds of thousands of young, female
undergraduates want Kate’s life and luck. Why that should be so is
too depressing for me to ponder. But it is so.
Other stories appeared this week about beautiful women having
plastic surgery and also about pretty Kim Sears, the girlfriend of
tennis champion Andy Murray, who is still waiting for a proposal. We
learnt that the next Bridget Jones film is being made about that
hopeless and dependent woman addicted to dieting and romance. Yes I
have watched these movies and laughed, but then thought of the grim
messages they convey. And the popular confessional journalist, Liz
Jones, had extracts published from her memoir. Here is a taster: “[I
wish] someone had told me I was normal and acceptable then I wouldn’t
have spent my life trying so hard to be better than I am. Lying.
Manipulating. Tanning. Plucking. Jogging. Dieting.”
Shame
on those women between 20 and 40 who have squandered thehard-won
achievements of original feminism. And to add insult to self-injury,
these younger generations seem proud that they dissed and dumped all
we fought for. We expected better and more from those who followed.
It is, I know, very fashionable these days for the young to blame
baby boomers for being “selfish” and spoiling it all. Well enough
of that. I squarely blame the young, who, through foolish apathy,
criminal self-indulgence and sometimes uninformed loathing of the
women’s movement, have ensured that our social, political and
economic environment is less fulfilling, much less safe, less equal
and less nurturing than it was even in the 70s and 80s when we old
Fems were burning bras and raising hell. There are exceptions. There
are always exceptions, but what matters are the common narratives and
those, alas, are regressive and anti-women.
Are
they proud, the “post-feminists”, when their eyes scan the
landscape? Catharine MacKinnon, radical feminist campaigner and
theorist in the 1980s, wrote compellingly of how “the eroticisation
of dominance and submission” creates social norms for male/female
relationships way beyond the bedroom. So what do we get now? The
bestselling Fifty Shades of Grey, a God-awful S&M trilogy,
mainstreaming the idea of male domination and “knowing” female
submission. The almost total pornification of Britain is now used
without any embarrassment by males, aided and abetted by females.
Internet porn sewage swills around and is defended in the name of
“freedom”. In one Sunday tabloid I found a full page advert for
porn DVDs. You too could have Black and White Babes, Uni Girls in Sex
Heaven, Gang Babes, Teen Group Sex costing a pound each. Meanwhile
most modern girls suffer from body image problems; many find it hard
to say no to sex; too many boys associate sex with porn images where
females are roughly taken and look like Barbie dolls.
Prominent
feminists used to say pornography is a metaphor for women’s defeat
in the long war for respect and parity. We are defeated. A report by
the IPPR think-tank found that ambitious, middle-class, professional
women are now more or less equal to their male counterparts, but that
those on low wages and with little power are actually doing worse. I
went to Ladywood, Birmingham last week, where 70 per cent of children
are raised by single mothers with little money. They do their best
and most look much older than they really are, both mums and
children. The cuts are hitting women much more savagely than men. The
cost of childcare is forcing the poor out of the legitimate job
market, so many are forced into twilight jobs with slave wages. (This
is happening to men too.
The
rape and murder of women, horrendous in real life, are now favourite
subjects for slick thrillers, in which lady detectives lead the
investigations. Domestic violence remains high and facilities to help
the women are closing down. There was a shocking reminder of how
vulnerable even the most powerful women can be with pictures in a
Sunday newspaper, showing Charles Saatchi with his hands around the
neck of his wife Nigella Lawson at an outside table of a restaurant.
She was in tears.
With
such a depressing scenario, it was good to hear that journalist
Charlotte Raven, 43, once a wild child of Thatcherism, was to
re-launch Spare Rib, the influential feminist mag which started in
1972 and died in 1993. It would be engaging, promised Raven,
surprising, political and sharp. And then Marsha Rowe and Rosie
Boycott, the two original founders, both of whom I like and admire,
threatened to sue Raven if she used their title name. Damn pity that.
We needed this mag to appear and succeed.
But
never mind, soon Kate and William’s baby will be born, and young
British women will rejoice and talk about little else. Transformative
politics? Not for them. They have cuter things on their little minds.
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Young
Women Are Not Failing Feminism, We Are Its Lifeblood
Posted:
17/06/2013 17:52
Yasmin
Alibhai Brown's piece
in the Independent accuses young women of failing feminism .
As a young woman and feminist I am angered and appalled by this; away
from the insulated world of the comentariat and media young women
have been organising for years, in student unions, in our local
communities, online and out there in the real world.
In
her viscous and unfounded attack on young women she states
"Shame
on those women between 20 and 40 who have squandered the hard-won
achievements of original feminism. And to add insult to self-injury,
these younger generations seem proud that they dissed and dumped all
we fought for."
However
from my experience I see women of all ages, teenagers to retirees,
fighting hard to retain those rights and to further the cause of
women's liberation, often directly addressing and challenging the
mistakes of the third wave, working hard to offer a feminism more
inclusive of all women. I have been active in feminism since
university where I met an amazing and inspiring group of young women
who undertook various actions and events raising awareness and money
for feminist causes at home and worldwide. We worked closely with
local women and founded Merseyside
Women's Movement ,
a hub of grass roots women's activism on Merseyside with which I am
still involved today alongside many other inspiring women, many of us
in our twenties and thirties.
Just
recently I attended Reclaim the Night in Liverpool, a march organised
by students, including women from the very same university women's
group I attended a few years ago. The event was host to inspiring
women speakers of all ages from across the country, from councillors
to writers. To suggest younger women are not interested or ignorant
of the women who went before us is insulting, in my activist work I
work along women of all ages, I have sat and listened intently to
women speak of their experiences at Greenham common, of living in
Palestine, of fighting for the rights of migrant and refugee women,
today women still wear the colours of the suffragettes with full
knowledge of their origins and the utmost respect for our
predecessors. I have been in audiences alongside other young women to
hear 'old school' feminists such as Germaine Greer and Selma James
speak, young women who will debate and ask searching questions. I
have seen young women at the forefront of fighting against the cuts,
campaigning to keep childcare centres open, campaigning for better
education around consent, volunteering for women's services,
organising resistance against fascism and organising events ranging
from academic discussion forums to arts events and film screenings.
It
seems to me Alibhai Brown is out of touch with what modern young
women are up to, preferring to characterise us as the shallow
stereotypes displayed in the mainstream media as opposed to actually
listening to and engaging with us. By idolising the past, such as the
controversial return of Spare Rib, a project with a lot of financial
backing, she ignores the media women, especially young women, have
created themselves with little or no backing. I would go so far to
say she is out of touch with feminism as a whole.
Sites
such as The F Word,
Feministing and Feministe,
g et thousands of hits and many writers such as Jessica
Valenti and Laurie
Penny write about feminist issues for mainstream publications
such as the Guardian and New Statesman. Many smaller blogs and
magazines allow women to express themselves on a wide range of
feminist issues and projects such as"Everyday
Sexism"and "Holla
Back" have been extremely successful in highlighting issues
around sexual harassment. Anita
Sarkeesian of Feminist Frequency has faced torrents
of abuse for highlighting sexism in video games and has inspired
many women to speak out about the misogynist abuse they face online.
Project such as Lady Geek and Little
Miss Geek are dedicated to getting more women into tech,
currently a very male dominated area. Fashion blogs such as My
Arched Eyebrow and Fuller
Figure Fuller Bust are giving women a platform to speak about
fashion in a body positive context, helping young women become more
confident and accepting of their bodies. The
Women's Room has been set up to address the dearth of female
experts in the media and is currently campaigning to keep women on
banknotes.
All
these projects have been started by women in the 20-40 age bracket
Alibhai condems, some are even younger such as teenager Lili Evans
who helped start the Twitter
Youth Feminist Army. Indeed many of the women behind these
projects have been featured in mainstream media, such as newspapers
and radio so one cannot help but wonder if Alibhai Brown has even
made an effort to interact with young women instead of insulting us
with slurs such as 'They
have cuter things on their little minds'.
There
is a multitude of similar projects out there, many spearheaded by
young women addressing various feminist causes both in the UK and
worldwide. Perhaps if Alibhai Brown looked around a bit more she
would see us, thousands, millions of us. She would see we are not the
'rare exceptions' she assumes us to be. She might even go so far as
to support us instead of shooting us down and insulting us, something
which to me is grossly anti-feminist. She would see that there are
young women campaigning against the sexual objectification she
highlights in her piece, that there are young women fighting against
violence against women, fighting to save women's refuges and rape
crisis centres, supporting their peers who are victims and survivors
of rape and violence. Are all young women feminist warriors? No, but
the same can be said of any age group.
The
truth is there are millions of us out there working hard to further
the feminist cause, not using our platform to berate our sisters and
tear them down, if anyone displays 'foolish apathy and criminal self
indulgence' it is Alibhai Brown herself for smearing young women in
such a derogatory, and dare I say it misogynistic, way whilst being
ignorant of all the work we are doing.
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http://www.nytimes.com/2011/07/27/world/europe/27iht-letter27.html?ref=feministmovement&_r=0
Liberté,
Égalité, Fertilité
By
KATRIN
BENNHOLD
Published: July 26, 2011
PARIS — Could
there be any worse time to leave Paris?
The City of Light
is more luminous than ever, after the sunniest spring and summer I’ve
experienced during my decade here (a recent wet spell
notwithstanding).
Line 1 on the
Métro, my fast track to work, is being automated and could thus soon
be shielded from the ritual strikes.
And, as austerity
bites in several parts of Europe, the French are collectively
boarding their ever-expanding fleets of high-speed trains to head for
the annual August break — a painful reminder of the long paid
vacations that few employees can hope to get anywhere else.
Worse, I’m six
months pregnant, the point at which all maternity-related health care
here becomes 100 percent state-covered, while my daughter is almost
eligible for the free full-time child care offered by the maternelle
— state preschools available to toddlers from the age of 3.
On
the long list of things to miss about France,
the climate, public transport and generous amounts of vacation do of
course feature prominently.
But, for this
woman at least, none of that can beat a combination of free
preschools, family allowances, tax deductions for each child, a paid,
four-month maternity leave and to top it all off, an extended course
of gymnastics, complete with personal trainer and electric
stimulation devices, to get you and your birth canal muscles back
into shape, courtesy of the taxpayer. (I still remember my
physiotherapist cheerfully promising me a “six-pack” in time for
the bikini season after I gave birth the last time.)
For my French
girlfriends, having children is just another thing you do in life.
You fit them in — one, two and often three of them — with your
career, your relationship, your other projects.
In my native
Germany, it’s your life that has to fit in with the child. Having a
baby (it’s rarely more than one these days) is still a profoundly
disruptive event for women, one that tends to curtail career ambition
and earning potential in keeping with a stubbornly traditional vision
of motherhood.
Even in my
generation of thirty-somethings, the stigma weighing on working
mothers remains heavy. One result: Germany’s birthrate is one of
the lowest in Europe, and our rate of female part-time work among the
highest.
In Anglo-Saxon
countries like the United States, and Britain, where I’ll be posted
next, the situation is different again. Working moms don’t face the
stigma there — but at the same time have much less of the
government aid that French women enjoy.
Perhaps my
biggest shock in transferring to London was to discover that as a
working mother of two I would be paying about €2,000, or $2,900,
more in income tax per year. Only for single people, or married
couples without children, does the widely held assumption hold true
that you pay a lot less tax in Britain than in France.
Child care in
London is also more expensive, and those costs don’t necessarily
cease at school age: A large variance in quality between state
schools means that parents more often turn to private schooling. The
debate about school districts does of course exist on both sides of
the Channel. But if private schools in France are often Catholic
schools with fees that are counted in hundreds, not thousands, of
euros, in London you’re sometimes talking about tens of thousands
of pounds in education fees before your child even applies to college
— or find yourself paying a premium on real estate in the immediate
vicinity of decently ranked state schools.
I have another
list, a much shorter one, of all the things I won’t miss about
France: the overrated coffee, the smell of andouillettes, the “do
not walk on the grass” signs in public parks and all the
unnecessary traffic congestion due to cars piling into the
intersection just as the light turns yellow. There are also the
early-morning ticket controls in the Métro that in my experience
seem to focus mostly on black and Arab-looking commuters.
But the No. 1
spot on this list is also occupied by something related to being a
woman: A deep-seated machismo in everyday interaction that grated
with me long before the Dominique Strauss-Kahn case made headlines.
Many French women
appear to worry more about being feminine than feminist, and French
men often display a form of gallantry predating the 1789 revolution.
“Charming,” I thought, when I first arrived 10 years ago and an
official in the Foreign Ministry scrambled to open every one of four
doors in a very long, narrow corridor. But I soon tired of the
unsolicited attention that young men sometimes heap upon women who
are walking down the Champs-Élysées in a skirt.
France ranks 46th
in the World Economic Forum’s 2010 gender equality report, lagging
behind the United States, most of Europe, but also Kazakhstan and
Jamaica. Women in France earn on average 26 percent less than men but
do two-thirds of the housework.
As the historian
Michelle Perrot put it to me a few months ago, “France may be
Scandinavian in its employment statistics, but it remains profoundly
Latin in attitude.”
And still, this
is the only European country where I’ve routinely met successful
businesswomen with three children and an enviable figure. At a time
of aging populations and ballooning debt levels across the Western
world, other countries can at least learn this from France’s
200-year-old natalist obsession: Investing in a public infrastructure
that supports working mothers pays off three times. It raises
employment rates, bolsters tax revenue and in the process grooms the
workforce and taxpayers of tomorrow.
Liberté,
égalité, fraternité remain important benchmarks for a successful
society. Fertilité could turn out to be one of the most important
ways to get there as the 21st century unfolds.
A version of this
article appeared in print on July 27, 2011, in The International
Herald Tribune with the headline: Liberté, Égalité, Fertilité.
–
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/07/15/world/europe/15iht-letter15.html?ref=feministmovement&pagewanted=all
LETTER
FROM EUROPE
Fault
Lines in France on Women
By
ELAINE
SCIOLINO
Published: July 14, 2011
PARIS — The French Revolution was supposed to create a new
national identity for the French people: the “citizen” who would
be equal under the law.
The male citizen, that is. The Declaration of the Rights of Man
declared men, not women, “free and equal in rights.” French women
were allowed to study in universities only in 1880 and got the vote
in 1944. Today, they hold a meager 18 percent of the seats in
Parliament; women’s salaries are nearly 20 percent lower than
men’s.
So
as Francecelebrated
Bastille Day, and the sad scandal of Dominique
Strauss-Kahncontinues,
the country is struggling with a modern-day identity crisis: the
place of women. “The
question of genuine equality for women has been deferred since the
French Revolution,” said Joan W. Scott, the eminent American
historian of France. “The Strauss-Kahn affair has put it back on
the table.”
Indeed, the Strauss-Kahn
episode has exposed three fault lines in French society. One is a
gender gap between women who want to talk about equality and justice
and men who want to move on. Another is a generation gap between
younger men whose consciousness about women’s rights has been
raised and older men who just don’t get it. Finally, the scandal
has triggered a messy, mean debate about feminism and how to
reconcile it with femininity.
The
gender gap: There
is no expression for “gender gap” in French. But a Harris poll
released last week concluded that among voters who had turned against
Mr. Strauss-Kahn as their choice for president, more women cited his
sexual behavior, while more men cited excessive spending habits.As
the Strauss-Kahn saga moves into its third month, many women are
demanding to be heard, while many men are losing interest. Suddenly,
issues like rape, incest and sexual harassment have been worthy of
debate. Forty feminist organizations met at a conference in the Paris
suburb of Évry and pledged to make the war against rape their main
cause in the coming year.
Françoise Bellot, head of
the feminist Collective Against Rape, had never been invited to
appear on French television. Now she is talking over and over —
about the 75,000 women raped in France every year.
Will the conversation
continue?“With a difficult economy in France and the monetary
crisis in Europe, many men are saying, ‘Let’s go back to the
essentials,”’ said Michelle Perrot, a French historian of women.
“A lassitude is setting in. It’s not very glorious.”
The
generation gap: In
French politics, even within Mr. Strauss-Kahn’s Socialist Party,
younger men say they are more willing than party elders to take
seriously the charges against him and to use the episode to promote
the cause of women.“The idea that every time he sees a woman he
seems to want to possess her doesn’t sit well with us,” said
Thierry Marchal-Beck, 24, national secretary of the Youth Socialist
Party. “Even if it was consensual sex with a hotel maid, it’s
still an abuse of power. It’s very important for men — young men
— to take the leads in the feminist moment and to rise up and fight
for equality between men and women.”
The
feminist debate: Can
women gain power and still wear flouncy skirts and be complimented by
men on their perfume? Can women demand equal rights without becoming
politically correct Americanized harpies? Can feminists be feminine?
Some leading female intellectuals have evoked what they call a unique
French-style feminism that involves old-fashioned rituals of
gallantry, politesse and seduction.Irène Théry, for example, in
discussing the Strauss-Kahn case in Le Monde, argued that French
women can use seductive wiles to have it all. She praised “a
certain way of living and not just thinking that rejects the impasses
of the politically correct, wants equal rights of the sexes and the
asymmetrical pleasures of seduction, the absolute respect of consent
and the delicious surprises of stolen kisses.”
In “Feminism
à la française,” an essay that followed in Libération, Ms. Scott
called such reasoning by Ms. Théry and three others “an inaccurate
characterization of any form of feminism” since it is “predicated
on the inequality of women and men.” The quartet struck back,
proclaiming their love for French literature, with its “infinite
nuances: tender, gallant, libertine, romantic love.” They form “a
precious resource for the harmony, embellishment and comprehension of
our lives, that is, for pleasure, beauty and self-examination.”
Next, four other scholars came to Ms. Scott’s defense. In
Libération, they praised her for bringing gender studies to the
forefront as a worthy, important subject. They were troubled when
seduction was described as the reconciling force in gender
inequalities.
There is so much confusion about feminism that in June, Elle
magazine described — in an article designed to be humorous — a
dozen different feminist types. Among them: “La Féminerd” (“She
signs all the petitions on the Internet”); “La Fémigraine”
(“As soon as the misogynist man opens his mouth, she warns, ‘Stop,
you bore me.”’); and “La Féminute” (“She fights for the
cause, but only for a minute”). Elle’s cover for that issue shows
the actress Monica Bellucci, nude. The headline on the story itself
(with more nude photos) is “A Real Woman.”
In the United
States in 1991, when Anita Hill testified before an all-male Senate
committee that her former boss Clarence Thomas had sexually harassed
her, he denied everything and was elevated to the Supreme Court. But
the hearings were a turning point. Women demanded an end to men’s
bad behavior; the men were clueless. The women replied, “They just
don’t get it.”
In France, some
who don’t get it are men like Patrick Allemand, the Socialist
Party’s federal secretary in the Alpes-Maritime region. He said
recently that the scourge of AIDS hadn’t disappeared from his
region because of “tourism, the climate and women who are too
beautiful.”
Others who don’t get it are women like Catherine Millet, the
French author best known for her 2001 best-selling memoir of loveless
sexual encounters in parking lots and swingers’ clubs. She wrote
that yes, rape is traumatic when it involves violence. But if there
is no weapon or beating, she said, it is a “traumatism that one can
overcome, like any other everyday violence.”
Elaine
Sciolino is the author of “La Seduction: How the French Play the
Game of Life” (Times Books)
A version of this article appeared in print on July 15, 2011, in
The International Herald Tribune with the headline: Fault Lines in
France on Women.
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NYtimes article
reviewing status of women in France:
October 11, 2010
Where Having It All Doesn’t Mean Having Equality
By KATRIN BENNHOLD
PARIS — Could there be
anything more French than this workout?
Weeks after giving birth, French women are offered a state-paid,
extended course of vaginal gymnastics, complete with personal
trainer, electric stimulation devices and computer games that reward
particularly nimble squeezing. The aim, said Agnes de Marsac, a
physiotherapist who runs such sessions: “Making love again soon and
making more babies.”
Perineal
therapy is as ubiquitous in France as free nursery schools, generous
family allowances, tax deductions for each child, discounts for large
families on high-speed trains, and the expectation that after a paid,
four-month maternity leave mothers are back in shape — and back at
work.
Courtesy
of the state, French women seem to have it all: multiple children, a
job and, often, a figure to die for.What
they don’t have is equality: France
ranks 46th in
the World
Economic Forum’s
2010 gender equality report, trailing the United
States, most of
Europe, but also Kazakhstan and
Jamaica.
Eighty-two percent of French women aged 25-49 work, many of them
full-time, but 82 percent of parliamentary seats are occupied by men.
French women earn 26 percent less than men but spend twice as much
time on domestic tasks. They have the most babies in Europe,
but are also the biggest consumers of anti-depressants.
A
recent 22-country survey by the Pew
Research Center summed it up: three in four French people believe
men have a better life than women, by far the highest share in any
country polled.
“
French
women are exhausted,” said Valérie Toranian, editor-in-chief of
Elle magazine in France. “We have the right to do what men do —
as long as we also take care of the children, cook a delicious dinner
and look immaculate. We have to be superwoman.”
The
birthplace of Simone de Beauvoir and Brigitte
Bardot may look Scandinavian in employment statistics, but it
remains Latin in attitude. French women appear to worry about being
feminine, not feminist, and French men often display a form of
gallantry predating the 1789 revolution. Indeed, the liberation of
French women can seem almost accidental — a byproduct of a
paternalist state that takes children under its republican wings from
toddler age and an obsession with natality rooted in three
devastating wars.
“
At
the origin, family policy wasn’t about women, it was about
Germany,” said Geneviève Fraisse, author of several books on
gender history. “French mothers have conditions women elsewhere can
only dream of. But stereotypes remain very much intact.”
Or,
as the philosopher Bernard-Henri Lévy put it: “France is an old
Gallic macho country.”
France crystallizes the
paradox facing many women across the developed world in the early
21st century: They have more say over their sexuality (in France
birth control and abortion are legal and subsidized), they have
overtaken men in education and are catching up in the labor market,
but few make it to the top of business or politics.
Only
one of France’s top companies is run by a woman: Anne Lauvergeon is
chief executive of the nuclear power giant Areva and mother of two
young children. Having
those children is relatively easy in France
,
one reason Paris
seems to
teem with stylish career women with several offspring.
At 31, Fleur Cohen has four
children and works full-time as a doctor at a Left Bank
hospital. As she drops her youngest
at nursery in stilettos and pencil skirt you would never guess that
she gave birth only three months ago. Child No. 4 wasn’t “planned,”
Ms. Cohen said, but it doesn’t change all that much: Instead of
three children, she now takes four on the Metro in the morning and
drops them at the public school and subsidized hospital nursery. She
joked that children are probably the best way to reduce your tax
bill. Irrespective of income, parents get a monthly allowance of
€123, or about $170, for two children, €282 for three children
and an additional €158 for every child after that. Add to that tax
deductions and other benefits, and the Cohens pretty much stopped
paying tax after baby No. 3.
Across
town, Ms. de Marsac snapped on a plastic glove, inserted two fingers
between Clara Pflug’s legs and told her to think of the wings of a
butterfly as she contracted her birth canal muscles. The French state
offers mothers 10 one-on-one, half-hour sessions of perineal therapy
to prevent post-pregnancy incontinence and organ descent — and to
improve sex. Ten sessions of free abdominal exercises follow; Ms. de
Marsac promises Ms. Pflug a “washboard tummy.”
French
women have on average two babies, compared with 1.5 in the European
Union overall.
Asked by foreign delegations about “le miracle français,”
Nadine Morano, the feisty family minister and mother of three, says
bluntly: “We spend the most money and we offer good childcare, it’s
as simple as that. Our country understood a long time ago that to
reconstruct a nation you need children.”
The
1870 defeat by a much more fertile Prussia led to first efforts to
encourage childbirth. Then came the losses of World War I. Since
1920, when the gold Medal of the French Family — to honor mothers
of eight or more — was created, expenditure on pro-breeding
policies has blossomed. Last year, €97 billion, or 5.1 percent of
gross domestic product — twice the E.U. average — went on family,
childcare and maternity benefits.
Emblematic
in this regard are the “écoles maternelles,” free all-day
nursery schools set up a century after the French revolution in part,
said Michelle Perrot, a historian, to stamp out the lingering
influence of the Roman
Catholic Church.
La
Flèche houses the oldest école maternelle in France. At 8:30 a.m.,
parents drop off toddlers as young as two. Classes end at 4:30 p.m.
but a free municipal service offers optional childcare until 6:30
p.m. Children are guaranteed a place in “maternelle” from the age
of three and 99 percent of them attend.
Katy
de Bresson, a single mother of two, called the enrollment of her son
Arthur a “mini-revolution.” Free of all childcare costs, she
could return to work full-time. “I am a lot happier and a lot more
self-confident since then.”
Working
mothers being the norm, Isabelle Nicolas, a nurse whose youngest son,
Titouan, is in Arthur’s class and who quit work after his birth,
feels pressure to return. “I spend a lot of time justifying
myself,” she said. “In France you are expected to do it all.”
But
ask any mother here whether school had changed the life of her
husband and the answer is “non.”
“
The
school is called ‘maternelle’ for a reason,” said principal
Anne Leguen. “In France, children are still considered to be the
responsibility of mothers.”
Forty
percent of French mothers undergo a career change within a year of
giving birth, compared with 6 percent of men. Both parents have the
right to take time off or reduce their hours until the child turns
three — but 97 percent of those who do are women.
Women
spend on average five hours and one minute per day on childcare and
domestic tasks, while men spend two hours and seven minutes,
according to the national statistics office Insee. In
Paris
, Ms. Cohen’s husband
is a doctor, too. But she bathes all four children, cooks and does
the Saturday shopping — largely, she insists, by choice. “If I
didn’t prepare food for my children, I would feel less like a
mother,” she said.
At work, meanwhile, she plays down motherhood. She sneaks down to
the hospital nursery to nurse her baby son, and tries to stay longer
than her male colleagues in the evenings. Otherwise, “everyone will
just assume that I’m leaving because of my children and that I am
not committed to the job.”
A
majority of medical graduates in France are female. Yet all 11
department heads in her hospital are men.
“
French
men have always been slow to give up power,” said Jean-François
Copé, parliamentary leader of President Nicolas
Sarkozy’s center-right party, who is defending a bill to oblige
companies to fill 40 percent of boardroom seats with women.
The
French Republic made “equality” a founding principle, but women
were allowed to vote for the first time only in 1945. Since a 1998
law obliged political parties to have an equal number of men and
women candidates on their party lists, parties have tended to pay
fines rather than comply.
Women
leaders come under close scrutiny in what is after all the home of
couture. Ms. Morano recalls being mocked on television for wearing
the same jacket several times. Ms. Lauvergeon likened her outfit to
“armor.” Four
pieces of equal pay legislation have passed since 1972. But in 2009,
even childless women in their forties still earned 17 percent less
than men. “
A patriarchal
corporate culture,” is the main barrier facing women in French
companies, according to Brigitte Grésy, author of a 2009 report on
gender equality in the workplace.
France
is Latin not just in its culture of seduction, but also in its late
work hours, Ms. Grésy said. And the disproportional weight of a
small number of male-dominated engineering schools in grooming the
elites has done its part in excluding women from power. Xavier
Michel, president of École Polytechnique, points out that the number
of female students has risen tenfold from seven to 70 since he
graduated in 1972 — but that leaves it at just 14 percent.
Simone
Veil was 18 when French women first voted and 28 when she was allowed
to open her own bank account. At 38, as health minister, she pushed
through the legalization of abortion. “A lot has changed, but a lot
hasn’t,” she says today. More comfort to her than many of the
laws in recent years is the fact that more fathers push strollers
through her neighborhood.
Ms.
Fraisse, the philosopher, says more than two centuries after France
got rid of the king as the father of the nation, it needs to get rid
of the father as the king of the family. “We had one revolution,”
she said, “now we need another one — in the family.”
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Aliens in
Skirts Get Brushoff From Men at Work:
Miriam Meckel
Oct 18, 2010
Bloomberg Opinion
This month,
Germany celebrated its 20th anniversary of reunification. Like any
birthday present, it was received with joy when East and West merged
in 1990.
But there was
another amazing gift that the country has declined to accept over the
past two decades: the mindset of 16 million emancipated citizens from
the East who never questioned the idea that men and women can work
regular full-time jobs while sharing equal responsibility for child
care and education.
One
of those 16 million people has made it into the Federal Chancellery.
And it’s a woman. When Angela
Merkel
took office in 2005, this was lauded as a signal that Germany was
finally forging ahead as a country of equal opportunity for men and
women to leadership positions. Instead, it brushed off the advantages
of eastern German gender equality.
This
is the picture today: While half of all business- school students are
women, a mere 27 percent of Germany’s managers are female, and this
number drops to 13 percent when it comes to board membership at big
enterprises. The European
Union
average is 30 percent.
Only
five women are on the group management boards of the 30 companies
listed on Germany’s benchmark DAX
Index.
Deutsche Telekom AG, E.ON AG, Merck KGaA, SAP AG and Siemens AG are
the only ones that have seen the benefit of female representation at
the highest level.
Torrent
of Reproaches
This
is stunning news in terms of gender equality, particularly
considering Germany has made little progress for the last 20 years.
The country has developed an even bigger remuneration gap between men
and women. It is true that this is still a problem in many countries.
But while women
in the EU
earn an average of 18 percent less than men do in the same jobs,
Germany ratchets up the pay gap to almost 25 percent. It isn’t
surprising that the EU Commission regularly directs a torrent of
reproaches toward Germany.
EU
Justice Commissioner Viviane
Reding
recently announced that there would be a law-enforced quota for women
in management positions if things don’t improve by the end of 2011.
This instantaneously excited a wave of negative responses by male
managers and the conservative press. There seem to be few worries
Germany has slipped a notch to position No. 13 (behind Lesotho and
the Philippines) in the latest “Global
Gender Gap Report 2010”
compiled by the World Economic Forum.
Performance
Drivers
Why
is Germany making so little progress in gender equality? Senior
managers ignore the body of research showing that women act as
corporate- and financial-performance drivers. The country’s
political leaders underestimate the foreseeable gap of a staggering
24 million in the European workforce, which Germany could help fill
if the female participation rate rises.
There
are a couple of reasons for the lack of progress. First, Germany
isn’t always the open-minded country it pretends to be. The idea of
a working mother being a “Rabenmutter” (uncaring mother) -- a
word lacking its equivalent in the rest of Europe -- is still
prevalent, even in well-educated circles. Talking to senior
management in Germany, one quickly realizes that “secretary” is
still the only professional position that women in the company fill.
If
women are to enjoy genuine support and be equal contenders for
careers in senior management, there is a dire need for a major
cultural change in Germany that includes new models of equal
parenting, modern concepts for state-supported child day care and
flexible working times. Without this change, families led by parents
with equal obligations and opportunities won’t become a reality.
Jobs
for Boys
Also,
with too few women in top positions the routine of male
self-selection for such positions is perpetuated. As many senior
managers, including the few female ones, still live and work in a
male-dominated environment, they tend to rely on their peers when
promoting people.
If
this self-sustaining process is to be disrupted, more female managers
are urgently needed. They would offer two benefits: They would
promote qualified women applying for the same positions as their male
counterparts. And men would slowly get used to being surrounded not
just by their own kind, but also by competent women.
Finally,
women need some of those role models that men could always rely on.
Female employees will refrain from aiming for senior-management jobs
as long as the path is seen as a horror trip where you bang your head
against glass ceilings, are viewed as a bad mother and treated like
an alien in a skirt.
In
2008, Norway enforced a female quota for corporate boards, and the
number of women board members has since increased to 40 percent. At a
recent discussion on Norway’s policy as a possible role model for
Europe, an entrepreneurial woman from eastern Germany had to admit
that gender equality hadn’t become the modus operandi for a unified
Germany.
Having
rejected the big present of emancipation in 1990, Germany might have
to finally enforce it by law.
(Miriam
Meckel
is the managing director of the Institute for Media and
Communications Management at the University of St. Gallen in
Switzerland, and a faculty associate at the Berkman Center for
Internet and Society at Harvard University. The opinions expressed
are her own.)
To contact the
writer of this column: Miriam Meckel at miriam.meckel@unisg.ch
To contact the
editor responsible for this column: James Greiff at
jgreiff@bloomberg.net
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Photo-essay:
http://lens.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/06/13/examining-identity-one-gender-at-a-time/